"As a retired corporate executive, my basic nature is practical and not so easy to impress. I appreciated Cindy’s professionalism and honest, straightforward demeanor as well as her tact, caring, and sensitivity when suggesting improvements or challenging me to think differently. Cindy's well-thought out dating process prepared me to find the fascinating woman who is in my life now." — Robert W.
“Cindy clearly understands the inner workings of romantic relationships. She helped me process the aftermath of my divorce by helping me identify what I was suppressing and how to overcome that. I now have a clearer understanding of myself and what it will take to build a healthy secure partnership. There are no words to describe how transformational her work is.” — Sandy T.
"Working with Cindy was the best thing that ever happened to my dating life. She accepted me for who I was, while clearly challenging me in a respectful way to step back and view my entire dating approach differently. Cindy’s method opened my eyes to view dating as a strategic process with specific benchmarks and action plan. It never occurred to me to approach myself as a ‘brand’; now I do." — Alex P.
I was fortunate to be happily married for many decades. I envisioned spending my retirement years with my one and only, but life did not turn out as planned. Yet, I maintained hope that finding new love would be the start of a brand-new future.
Even though I was dating, I felt frustrated and disappointed with my efforts. Then, I happened to meet Cindy at a social gathering. Little did I know that my life was about to change in ways I could have never imagined.
To be honest, I felt vanilla, bland, and boring. Cindy assured me that was not the case; I just didn’t have the knowledge and correct skill set to market and present my best self to those I was interested in dating.
Here are some of the highlights of the changes and improvements I made.
Cindy pressed one point emphatically: emotional intelligence was intrinsic to successful dating. I completed several exercises and assessments to find out more about me — my strengths, blind spots, and challenges — not only in my dating life but in the rest of my life as well.
This introspection, along with all the other changes and improvements I was making, increased my self-confidence substantially. I discovered I really did have a lot to offer a prospective mate.
I replaced plain, unframed eyeglasses with three distinctive looking pairs. After consultation with a skin care specialist, I chose three facial procedures: BBL (broad ban light to reduce sun damage); Sculptra (derma filler); and Blepharoplasty (upper eyelid lift).
I began a daily skin care regimen and had my teeth whitened. I updated my hairstyle and changed my diet to eat more healthily. I worked with a wardrobe consultant selecting items that fit my body type, skin tone, and style.
Cindy noticed I had not completely worked through the pain of losing my spouse. She encouraged me to work with a qualified therapist to resolve this. I have to say this was the best thing I have ever done for myself.
IDEAL PARTNER TRAITS
Cindy helped me clarify what I really wanted in a partner, my must-haves (non-negotiables), preferences, and can't stands.
She cautioned about love's neurochemical cocktail; that hot mix of hormones that clouds rational thinking when it comes to picking a mate, especially in the early stages of dating.
We completely overhauled my online dating presence. Cindy helped me rewrite my profile, taking the difficulty out of writing about myself to tell a much more interesting story of who I was and what I was looking for.
I replaced photos with new ones showing my updated look and areas of interest. In no time the clicks on my profile increased.
I feel like a totally changed person. I've learned so much about myself and now feel well-positioned to meet a wonderful person with whom I want to spend the rest of my life!
The names listed in Success Stories have been changed to maintain confidentiality.
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